Kinda having so-called weird friend now.
Don't even understand why on earth is she acting like that. T.T
That is why i come up with this entry.
(Thanks to my weirdo friend) hew hew
So, in this context,
should we be satisfied with the person who doesn't get into us?
Well well well *thinking*
" Accept others the way the are. You cannot change other people to fit what you want them to be and bla bla bla. "
Am i too fussy? True, we might too fussy in choosing our friends.
And yes, to be, our real best buddy.
But what i want to make it clear now is that..
Yes, you ought to accept people for the way they are.
You ought to love people with all the faults and weaknesses that they come with.
But that doesn't mean that you should be just satisfied with the way they are.
I'm not changing the cat to be the dog or the dog into a horse.
Its impossible duh!
=="
For me, i can change..
The cat to be like the dog.
The dog into the horse.
On many perspectives...
Yes, we can!
#sounds so motivated
'This is just the way I am', is an excuse
for not to grow,
not to behave properly,
not to do the right thing,
or to do what you need to do.
Perhaps, when you're just telling that person,
'hey its wrong to be like this',
'hey i don't like this',
'hey can u change this?'
'hey you're so weird',
'hey you better change for the good'..
'hey you..' and 'hey you..'
Maybe..
One fine day, he/she will realize him/her mistakes.
Unfortunately, in reality, we are so afraid to say no.
We are afraid to tell him/her what's totally wrong and so on.
Too bad...
Although I don't think a person should be overly critical, I do believe that everyone should recognize the need to grow and improve.
The moment that you have arrived in life where you no longer need improvement is probably the moment that you're dead as well.
Don't be that 'dead' until you're truly dead. Hahaha
Nutshell, life is all about relationships and growth.
If a person can't improve, what's more to do in life then?
Accepting other people as they are is what matters.
Not drastically, but slowly, taking the time into considerations.
This is what makes a relationship meaningful--the patience..
When the experiences of the relationship change and alters both involved for the better.
#oh ya, moving my pen to next chapter of my lovely i-genetics hahaha c ya! ^,<
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